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Disco The Sexual Revolution _ Honestly IG can’t

Disco

The Sexual Revolution
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Honestly IG can’t do this topic justice. There just wasn’t enough space. So please comment and ask (or add) anything you want.
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Disco was an raw. It was a sound crafted by Black and Latino people, queer folks, and women.
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It was a sounded vocally dominated by Black women but with an infusion of BIPOC sounds and histories.
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If was a safe space for gay and queer folks. Those constantly threatened by police raids, policies that made them illegal, and an unwelcoming society that kicked them out adult or child.
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The holy trinity of Disco was sex, drugs, and music.
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Disco is what happened when social movements collided and burst from the underground.
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The push back against the gender came from predominantly young, white, hetero men who were afraid of being excluded (laughable right).
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Disco music unlike other genres started in clubs. From there they would hit the radio. DJs ruled the Disco realm.
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Disco started with underground dance clubs for niche communities to escape the political turmoil of the decade.
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Disco allowed for a freedom of identity not seen before in pop culture. Androgyny, fluid and open sexuality, excess and camp. The more outrageous the better, if that was your thing. Only in disco can openly gay COGIC raise black man like Sylvester transit from drag shows to superstardom.
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Gloria Gaynor, singer of “I Will Survive” believes that the Disco Demolition didn’t come out of nowhere and was supported by the music industry. Although they were making money from the genre she thought the racism was still present. Disco, the sound of the marginalized, was taking over all other genres.
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Rolling Stone critic Dave Marsh told Today that he was appalled by the events of Dosco Demolition Night: “It was your most paranoid fantasy about where the ethnic cleansing of the rock radio could ultimately lead. It was everything you had feared come to life.” meanwhile, productor Nile Rodgers, guitarist of the Disco band Chic, likened the movement to “Nazi book-burning.” “This is America, the home of jazz and rock and people were now afraid to even say the word disco”.

#FetishFriday Fetish Mining _ BDSM and kinks can

#FetishFriday

Fetish Mining
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BDSM and kinks can be a blast! It’s an enjoyable experience for all if done right. The issue there are some people who go about it in all the wrong ways.
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One example of this is Fetish Mining.
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Kink is all about consent. Meaning if you don’t have it…. You shouldn’t be doing it.
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I made a most a couple days ago about what it means to have consent, think F.R.I.E.S.

The I in FRIES stands for informed!
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Meaning people have to know what they’re getting in to. Can can’t use someone for your own sexual gratification without their expressed consent.
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Fetish mining can come in many forms and unfortunately happens to all ages, genders, and backgrounds.
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Be on the moon out for questions or requests that seem harmless at first glance but could quickly go into another place.
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Remember while we’re all trying to make it in this capitalistic system we don’t have to do everything a patron or potential patron asks of us.
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If you’re uncomfortable make it clear what your boundaries are and do not compromise on them.
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If you have any experience with or tips against Fetish mining please drop them below in the comments!
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#fetishmining #kinkcommunity #bdsm #kinkincolor #blackkink #blackkinkmatters #blackkinkcommunity #blackbdsm #blackbdsmcommunity #sexpositivity #sexpositiveculture #inclusivesexed #letstalkaboutsex #consent #consentculture

Consent Remember F.R.I.E.S _ Freely given Reversi

Consent

Remember F.R.I.E.S
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Freely given
Reversible
Informed
Enthusiastic
Specific
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A lot of conversations on Consent tend to be very black and white but the reality is we should look at it with a lot more nuance.
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This means that while it it NEVER okay to participate in non consensual acts we need to understand how we get there. When we acknowledge the harmful things we’ve learned about sex & Consent we can hopefully prevent them from happening.
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I don’t want to hear “but x said yes!” Because even if a person does say yes doesn’t mean they don’t have the right to say no later on.
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It’s not just verbal cues. It’s also the non verbals as well. If someone isn’t an enthusiastically participant then we need to pause and check in with your partner(s).
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It’s important that we take peoples boundaries and rights to bodily autonomy seriously.
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#consent #consentiskey #communication #FRIES #FreelyGiven #Reversible #Enthusiastic #Specific #ipreview

Queer BIPOC authors Featuring writers of erotica,

Queer BIPOC authors

Featuring writers of erotica, erotic poetry, romance short stories and novels.
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Please follow all the authors listed and check out their work!
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Also if you’re a write tag yourself (or someone you know) in the comments.
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I’m really thrilled to be able to feature non conventional writers as well. I’m super proud of all those who have had books published but I understand there can be barriers that prevent some (very talented) authors from this route. This list features bloggers, fan fiction writers, poets, published authors, IG creators, and many more!
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Also thanks for your patience with this post!
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UPDATE The Knoxville Planned Parenthood Fire is b

UPDATE

The Knoxville Planned Parenthood Fire is being considered intentional!
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Below is an email I received from @pptnm
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Dear Tia,

As you may already know, an all-consuming fire burned down the Planned Parenthood of Tennessee and North Mississippi (PPTNM) health center in Knoxville on New Year’s Eve. The building, which was just six weeks away from completing a two year long renovation, was deemed a total loss.

This afternoon, we learned that this fire was an intentional act of arson.

We are shocked, heartbroken, and angry to have confirmation that Planned Parenthood is not just under attack by Tennessee lawmakers — it is literally under physical, criminal attack by extremists in our own backyard. But, even as we are faced with this deeply disturbing news, we enter 2022 with a fierce determination to protect reproductive freedom.

January 22nd is the 49th anniversary of the landmark Roe v. Wade decision that gave us the constitutional right to abortion. But, with the future of abortion access in the hands of the Supreme Court, this may be its last anniversary in Tennessee if we don't fight back with everything we've got. Support our fight to keep abortion safe and legal in our state at Rock For Roe on January 22nd, a virtual concert and textathon benefiting Tennessee Advocates for Planned Parenthood!
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The attacks on abortion access haven’t stopped coming and they’re nowhere near finished. Wherever you are it’s time to saddle up and get involved in the fight for Repro rights!
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#ipreview #knoxville #knoxvilletn #plannedparenthood #abortionunderattack #abortionaccess #supportyourlocalsabortionclinic #reprorights #reproductiverights #reproductivehealth

Cum in the eye? No biggie _ I remember a some yea

Cum in the eye?

No biggie
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I remember a some years back my BFF calling me asking me what to do when you get cum in your eye and me being like “how the hell am I supposed to know?” To which she responded “idk you be fucking a lot so I assumed you’d know.”
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Well today I can send her this!
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Getting semen in your eye can sting and burn in a way that might make you scared of serious damage, but not to worry it’s normally a very minor (albeit annoying dilemma).
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Semen contains components like sugars, enzymes, and acids, all of which can irritate your fragile ocular tissue. Your eye will react in the best way it knows how to get rid of a foreign substance: inflammation that leads to symptoms like burning, tearing, sensitivity to light, redness, or blurry vision.
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When you rinse your eye you can use plain, drinking water or tap water if it’s safe to drink.
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While saline solution is a good idea NEVER use soap to clean your eye out.
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You may experience eye redness but it should go away within 24 hours. If not I would contact your eye doctor.
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For relief keep flushing your eye out with over-the-counter (OTC) eye drops, water, or saline solutions. You can also apply warm or cool compresses over your eyes to soothe irritation. A soft washcloth dampened with water is perfect. Taking OTC pain relievers like acetaminophen (Tylenol) and ibuprofen (Advil) can help, too.
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If your eye is getting redder, continuously watering, or increasing in pain, call an eye doctor. These could be signs of an eye infection.
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Possible consequences of getting semen in your eye:
•A stye
•Conjunctivitis (Pink Eye)
•Some STIs
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While it is unlikely that getting semen in your eye will cause a stye it is possible. It’s probably not from the semen itself but from all the itching and scratching you did afterward.
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You can get conjunctivitis from some bacteria in semen.
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This includes STI bacteria, such as chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis.
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Your eyes are covered by mucous membranes that could theoretically leave you vulnerable to STIs because many bacteria and viruses in bodily fluids can pass through this fragile tissue.
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#KinkOfTheDay Agoraphilia _ Okay so most people a

#KinkOfTheDay

Agoraphilia
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Okay so most people are pretty familiar with this… even if you didn’t know the name for it.
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And I won’t pretend not to have dabbled in this salacious practice myself 😎. “Im here for a good time not a long time” lol
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Why?! Because it was erotic as hell! The thrill of being caught really does for an adrenaline junkie like me. 😈
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But there are some drawbacks (outside of the legal ramifications).
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One it’s usually pretty spur of the moment so you may not have the things you like or need to have sex.
•Condoms
•Toys
•Lube
•Fetish Gear
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But that doesn’t mean I don’t my planners out there who don’t get prepared they STAY prepared.
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Two if you’re outdoors there may be bugs. If you live in the south there are definitely mosquitoes 🙄🙄🙄.
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Public restrooms are normally pretty gross or the spacing is horrendous. Plus it’s kind of a dick move to hog the bathroom.
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If you’re in the kind of public area where just anyone can walk by you are tumbling into some very non consensual territory here.
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Just because you may be an exhibitionist doesn’t mean everybody wants to see your business. Also children could be present and now someone’s mom is trying to fight you (which honestly you probably deserve lol).
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Also clean up isn’t so easy if you aren’t near running water. You should always pee after sex but if you don’t have toilet paper vulva owners could run into some problems. Plus now you got a cum stained shirt and you smell like pubes but you’ve got to Uber or walk to your next destination 🥴🥴🥴.
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If your heart is set on doing it then try to pick secluded areas at night where the chances of running in to anyone are slim.
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#agoraphilia #consent #sexnotstigma #kinkpositive #comprehensivesexed #sexploration #inclusivesexed #hoetip #humansexuality #sexeducator #kinkster #exhibitionist #queersexed #ipreview #blackkink #blackkinkcommunity #blackkinkmatters #blacksex #blacksexuality #blacksexeducator #letstalkaboutsex

Breaking News Knoxville’s Planned Parenthood de

Breaking News

Knoxville’s Planned Parenthood described as a “Total loss” after a fire
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Knoxville Fire Department reported the working fire 6:50 a.m. at 710 N. Cherry St. The clinic was closed for renovations.
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The fire is currently under investigation, according to Wilbanks, and further information will be released as the investigation continues.

The investigation will include sending in authorities to look for signs of arson.

The Tennessee Bureau of Investigation said Friday it's been asked to assist.
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The location has previously been the target of vandalism. In January, police reported that a suspect had used a shotgun to shoot out the front windows of the building. While officials cannot confirm the cause of the fire, they did tell WVLT News that an arson investigator was on scene.
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Please support Knox residents in whatever capacity you can.
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#knoxvilleplannedparenthood #plannedparenthood #abortionclinic #abortionaccess #NYE #TBI #tennesseebureauofinvestigation #clientcare #arsoninvestigator #reproductivefreedom #reproductivejustice #reproductiverights

New Year New Lines PUH-LEEZ _ Listen we’re goin

New Year

New Lines PUH-LEEZ
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Listen we’re going into 2022 and there are somethings we NEED to leave behind. (Honestly, folks should’ve BEEN stopped this)
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I am a Black woman. I was born a Black woman. I have always lived as a Black woman. And I will die as a Black woman.
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It’s a really weird experience to be in a predominantly white (or nonblack) country and how people show racially charged “compliments” at you.

It’s gross to be on dating sites and have people think showing interest in you because you’re black is a badge of honor.

It’s triggering to be a part of kink communities and folks try to force, manipulate, or trick you into their race play fetishes.
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Funny enough when you compliment me you don’t need to remind me that I’m Black. Believe it or not…. I’m aware.
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I don’t care who wants to date interracially but do it based on a love for the person not an obsession with their skin tone.
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I’m not a new trend. I’m a human being. Keep the “I wanted to know what sleeping/dating a Black person is like”.
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Outside of folks blatant sexual racism and fetishization im not a get out of jail free card. I’m a human being not a plot point you pull out when someone calls you on being racist.
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Anyway cut the shit and do better.
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#SexualRacism #PersonNotPreference #BlackSexEducator #BlackSex #BlackSexuality #NewYearNewMe #LeaveItIn2021 #letstalkaboutit #notyourpreference #blackwomanmagic #cuttheshit

Author Search Creating a repository _ When you Go

Author Search

Creating a repository
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When you Google search authors a lot of folks get left out. I’m making a list of BIPOC erotic authors that write stories of love and sex from different perspectives!
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I want BIPOC authors who write queer stories, disabled stories, traditional stories, diasporic stories, etc.
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If you’re one of those or know someone who is please either comment, DM, or email me.
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Just tell me who you are and the kind of stories you write.
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I’d love to feature all of you!
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#blackauthors #blackauthorsmatter #blackromancenovels #blackromance #blacklove #blackauthorsofinstagram #blackerotica #blackeroticauthor #blackerotic #bipocauthors #bipocauthor #asianauthors #asianerotica #asianromance #asianlove #latinaauthor #latinoauthors #indigenousauthors #eroticromanceauthor #eroticwriter #eroticpoems #smutbooks #fanfiction #romancenovels #eroticfiction #blacksex #kinkincolor #queerauthor #disabledauthor #queerwriters

Follower Appreciation Post We did it! We hit 10k!

Follower Appreciation Post

We did it! We hit 10k!!!
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I am so happy to be in community with each and everyone of you.
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I started this page last May with no direction or no real goals… lol just vibes and a desire to share my knowledge with anyone who would listen.
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As time went on I grew as an educator, creative, researcher, colleague, and friend. I can’t wait to grow even more with y’all.
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I find this work I do here to be really impactful. To teach sex and sex from a culturally inclusive space.
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For those who are new here I hope you find something that you can enjoy and relate to. The page is a mixture of history, sociology, politics, public health, pop culture, kink, consent, and education!
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This is a pro black, sex positive, pro abortion account. While I welcome discussion I will not tolerate disrespect to folks identities.
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Remember all the content I put out is FREE. I accept donations but I don’t require them. I work full time outside of this so please be respectful of my time and hard work.
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Oh and for the love of god no more dick pics or sexually inappropriate DMs. 🙃
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Please let me know what topics you’re interested in, what you want to see more of, really any feedback (positive or negative). Also any posts you love that I’ve made so far!
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Again I really love you all so much. I was afraid when I first started that no one would care or I wouldn’t be good enough so your support means the world to me!
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#thankyou #grateful #gratefulthankfulblessed #sexeducator #sexeducatorlife #sexeducation101 #blacksexeducator #blacksexualhealth #queersexed #blacksex #blacksexuality #kinkincolor #blackkink #kinkeducation #publichealth #proabortion #blackgirlmagic #10kfollowers #10kfollowback

bell hooks On loving men _ I am a boy mom. So whe

bell hooks

On loving men
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I am a boy mom. So when I learned of bell hooks recent passing the quote that I love most from her is the one from the second slide.
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It got me thinking about what it means to love men.
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hooks was one of the country’s foremost feminist scholars — and was often celebrated for her deeply accessible writing on the intersection of race, gender, and sexuality.
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She also made feminism make sense for men. Her 2004 book, The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love taught men how to, well, be better and more full men, and explained in simple terms how the patriarchy harms them. It discussed how the patriarchy harms men (yes even when they benefit).
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Contrary to popular belief, feminism isn’t anti-men. hooks recognized that patriarchy and sexism harms men as well.
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Her work created spaces for men, especially men of color, to examine masculinity and sexuality.
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Excerpts from Jewel Woods, “bell hooks’ Love for Black Men” ⬇️

She talks personally about how patriarchy and sexism have affected the men in her family, like her father and her brother. She also takes time to identify the redemptive and transformative love of other black men in her family, like the uncle she refers to as Daddy Gus.

Whether it’s the chapter “Reconstructing Black Masculinity” in Black Looks; her chapter “Challenging Sexism” in Killing Rage; her co-authored piece with Cornel West; or the central voice she had in the gender debate sparked by Orlando Patterson’s piece “Backlash,” you always get the sense that bell is not just interested in talking about black men’s lives, but in truly engaging black men.

But she does expect men to be part of the movement. In her essay, “Men in Feminist Struggle–The Necessary Movement” she points out the limitations of traditional feminist theory in it’s inability to engage and re-conceptualize masculinity, and she talks passionately about her “deeply felt conviction” that men must play an active role in feminist struggle.
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What are your thoughts on how feminism engages men? Or on bell hooks? Drop them in the comments!
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Merry Black Christmas From the cast of Livin Sin

Merry Black Christmas

From the cast of Livin Single and your favorite Black sex educator!
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#livingsingle #livingsingletvshow #blackchristmas #merrychristmas #enjoythemoment #loveandhappiness

Repost from @freakylilchristians • The holiday s

Repost from @freakylilchristians
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The holiday season can be one filled with anxiety, stress, guilt and religious flashbacks. But it can also provide a great opportunity to reflect on the year, and all the positives it has brought.

As we go through this holiday season, I'm beyond grateful for all of you who've joined me on this journey. From those of you who've shared your stories of growing beyond the narrow borders of purity culture, to those of you who've given us all a glimpse into your fantasies and fears, to those of you who've simply showed up to listen and learn from others.

All of you have made this community what it is.

This account is "freakylilchristians" because it's not just the story of one person.

It's a symphony of stories, each of us bringing our own insights and experiences and all the learning we've brought along the way.

So thank you all so much for being here. Whether you've been here since the first shitty logos and poorly designed graphics in January or you just joined yesterday, I'm grateful that you're part of freakylilchristians.

So, in honor of me, crank one out for the holidays! It's the best gift you can give yourself.

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#sexpositivechristianity #exvangelical #deconstruction #selflove #sexeducation #purityculture #exchristian #christiansexuality #christiansexed #sexpositivity #sexvangelical

Playboy Bunny Black Edition _ In March 1965 Jenni

Playboy Bunny

Black Edition
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In March 1965 Jennifer Jackson was the first African-American woman to be featured as a centerfold in Playboy Magazine.
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The magazine also had its first solo Black cover star— African American model Darien Stern, who was featured on the cover of the October 1971 issue.
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The first African-American Playmate of the Year was Renee Tenison in 1990.
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Jean Bell, Miss October 1969, was the 2nd African-American to be a centerfold and first to be a cover model (Jan 1970).
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Outside of those on and in Playboy Magazine some of you may know that Zelda Wynn Valdes was the African-American designer who is credited with designing the 1st Playboy Bunny costumes.
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Zelda Wynn Valdes was an African American fashion designer and the 1st Black woman to open her own shop. It was also the 1st Black-owned business in Broadway in NYC.
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Her designs have been worn by famous entertainers such as Dorothy Dandridge, Josephine Baker, Marian Anderson, Josephine Baker, Ella Fitzgerald, Mae West, Ruby Dee, Eartha Kitt, and Sarah Vaughan, among others.
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Originally, the Valdes design had the ears taller and the ensemble lacked the trademark bow tie, collar, and cuffs. First unveiled publicly in an early episode of Playboy’s Penthouse Magazine, the bunny costume made its formal debut at the opening of the first Playboy Club in Chicago, Illinois on the evening of February 29, 1960.
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#Playboy #PlayboyBunny #Playmates #ZeldaWynnValdes #BlackHistory #BlackHerstory #PlayBoyMagazine #EroticAnthology #EroticHistory #MissOctober #PlaymateOfTheYear #Centerfold #BlackDesigners #BlackSexuality #TheMoreYouKnow #BlackSexEd #BlackSexEducator #ipreview #blackownedbusiness #blackwomen #blackgirlmagic

Latest News!!!! The FDA has approved the 1st inje

Latest News!!!!

The FDA has approved the 1st injectable HIV preventative treatment!!!
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On December 20th, the FDA released a statement saying that they approved Apretude (cabotegravir extended-release injectable suspension) for use in at-risk adults and adolescents weighing at least 35 kilograms (77 pounds) for pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) to reduce the risk of sexually acquired HIV.
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From the @fda :

“Today’s approval adds an important tool in the effort to end the HIV epidemic by providing the first option to prevent HIV that does not involve taking a daily pill,” said Debra Birnkrant, M.D., director of the Division of Antivirals in the FDA’s Center for Drug Evaluation and Research. “This injection, given every two months, will be critical to addressing the HIV epidemic in the U.S., including helping high-risk individuals and certain groups where adherence to daily medication has been a major challenge or not a realistic option.”
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According to the @cdcgov , notable gains have been made in increasing PrEP use for HIV prevention in the U.S. and preliminary data show that in 2020, about 25% of the 1.2 million people for whom PrEP is recommended were prescribed it, compared to only about 3% in 2015.

However, there remains significant room for improvement. PrEP requires high levels of adherence to be effective and certain high-risk individuals and groups, such as young men who have sex with men, are less likely to adhere to daily medication. Other interpersonal factors, such as substance use disorders, depression, poverty and efforts to conceal medication also can impact adherence. It is hoped that the availability of a long-acting injectable PrEP option will increase PrEP uptake and adherence in these groups.
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Now I’m not exactly sure on why young men who sleep with men are less likely to adhere to daily doses of PrEP. That is verbatim from the CDC and I couldn’t find much clarity.
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I love hearing about new advancements in HIV treatment and prevention! I believe this can go a long way to helping a lot of people!
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Happy Holidays! 🌲 This post centers Christmas

Happy Holidays! 🌲

This post centers Christmas because that’s the holiday I celebrate but these tips can be used for any holiday!
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By now if you’re doing the holidays with friends/family you’re probably settling in or on your way soon. Hopefully these tips will help though whose sex drive didn’t go away because of the holidays!
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According to a study published in 2017, people get particularly horny during the holidays. We can’t blame the mistletoe or festive drinks alone for this phenomena. What’s actually happening is people have time (being off from work) and are happy from the celebrations.
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According to the same study, in the United States, September- 9 months after the Christmas season- has the highest birth rate.

Talk about the gift that keeps on giving!
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Christmas is also a big day for contraceptives. Convenience store chain 7-11 claims condom purchases are 2.5x higher on Christmas Day than an average day!
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However alcohol can be a factor and I caution everyone to understand the rules of mixing alcohol and sex! Remember Consent can’t be given from those who are wasted. And alcohol can’t have some negative affects on our sex lives.
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Whatever your reason for getting it on hopefully these tips help with your holiday affairs!
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Have any more tips? Drop them in the comments!
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Deepfake Porn Is the counterfeit legit? _ Deepfak

Deepfake Porn

Is the counterfeit legit?
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Deepfake pornography prominently surfaced on the Internet in 2017, particularly on Reddit.
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A report published in October 2019 by Dutch cybersecurity startup Deeptrace estimated that 96% of all deepfakes online were pornographic.
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In December 2017, Samantha Cole published an article about r/deepfakes in Vice that drew the first mainstream attention to deepfakes being shared in online communities. Six weeks later, Cole wrote in a follow-up article about the large increase in AI-assisted fake pornography. Since 2017, Samantha Cole of Vice has published a series of articles covering news surrounding deepfake pornography.
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The problem of abusers using manipulated still photographs has been known about for some time.
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One victim described how her privacy was violated by someone she had trusted 10 years ago.

Judith (not her real name) said: "I had some messages from my ex-boyfriend, who I had broken up with a little while previously, saying that he had Photoshopped some explicit images to contain me.

"A couple of months later, I got an email from the moderator of an amateur porn site saying, 'are you sure you want these on the internet?' It turned out that my ex had decided to upload quite a range of images of me in a lot of quite explicit porn with my real full name," Judith said.

The photos were taken down and her abuser was spoken to by the police but he has never faced any criminal charges.
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Blame abusers… NOT children Cut the victim blam

Blame abusers… NOT children

Cut the victim blaming shit right now!
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Twitter tends to be the catalyst for many of my posts but today’s topic really got me heated.
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I am sick and tired of folks trying to place all the blame (or most of it) on minors for adults willfully choosing to engage sexually with them!
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If you’re going to be a fucking predator at least say it with your chest!
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Children are just that children.
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A lot of people log on to Twitter.com every day and say how minors can’t (or shouldn’t make cuz decisions for themselves. The invalidate their autonomy. They do everything in their power to limit those under 18.

Then all of a sudden they turn around and say the same kids who don’t have the good sense to fry an egg were capable of spinning this intricate web of deceit and tricked grown folks into sleeping with them.
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Again it needs to be repeated that 🗣 THERE IS NO CHILD FAST ENOUGH TO CATCH AN ADULT THAT’S NOT INTERESTED!
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If a minor solicited sex from me I’d say no. If I was in a position of authority of a minor and viewed them as “very mature and responsible” for their age I would still know their age as say no.
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“What’s not clicking Steven?!?!”
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The reason being I’m not interested in children! Also I know the damage that I could cause. I understand grooming. Etc etc etc etc etc as the day is long.
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I really have nothing more to say that I need folks to have all the smoke for the adults and all the support for the true victims… the children.
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Repost from @polyamorousblackgirl • context and

Repost from @polyamorousblackgirl
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